So here I stand. Seriously. Technically. I figured it was time to publish another post for all you lovely people out in shoutpost land. I guess that I'll start with the issues I've begun to have with my sociology professor - he is emotionally and sexually attracted to me. I'm not sure why. He's expressing - or attempting to express his emotions towards me through physical contact and verbal messages. Dirty email, OH MY, that's absolutely the way to a girl's heart. Considering that I have a boyfriend, this is becoming increasingly aggravational. How many times do I have to push you away, or threaten to speak with the dean about your actions? Apparently 4. 4 is my current number of negative responses to his emotional and sexual outbursts. He's a nice guy, and everyone knows that if I wasn't with the MOST amazing man on this planet already - I would be all over this. I love a "nerd", a smart, witty, educated guy. That's about the biggest turn-on to me, other than him making me laugh. I suppose his advances are sweet (not really) in thought, but it's just not the right time in my life for any of that. Speaking of men, what is it with men being mean towards curvacious women? I mean, I'm curvacious - I have hips, and I am damn proud of that. It means that I'm good to mate with (on biological terms), because those stick-figures that most men are attracted to aren't exactly going to birth his children appropriately. However, women who are curvacious (or "fat") who complain about their bodies - DO SOMETHING. Complaing may lose a lot of calories via your mouth, but unless you're willing to put down the Krispy Kreme - you're going to remain fat. You may be embarrassed about your double chin, your cellulite covered thighs, your jiggling rear end, or any other multitude of problems. But emptying your tears into that pint of Ben and Jerry's isn't going to fix anything, in fact it will increase any body image issues that you're having currently. Don't get me wrong, I know more than my fair share of GORGEOUS women who happen to be more than "plus size" - they have the PERSONALITY to make up for it. Men go after those disgustingly-thin women, because they tend not to care about their personality - intelligence, apparently, is not that important to them. I know that idea is primarily stereotypical, but there are more than enough stereotypes about heavier women. So, deal with it. Anyways - I hope that this was more than enough insight to last my visitors a while. I'll try writing more when I have a chance. |